Wednesday, 5 March 2008
Dr. Jekyll And Mr. Hyde
During My childhood days my father used to cite example of Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde too often while giving gyan to us. I never intended to listen to my father and he also knew that his children were unable to comprehend the subject at that age. But still he by choice threw his philosophies to us. After gaining much experience from life, I toes my father’s line and fathomed why he used to deal with such subjects, which were beyond obvious for any child.
Dr. Jekyll is a character from Louis Stevenson novella that deals with duality of human nature. It’s about a good Dr. Henry Jekyll and misanthropic Mr. Edward Hyde. The phrase "Jekyll and Hyde" implies a person who shows profoundly different behavior, from changing contexts, as if almost another person. Though a fiction but relevant to human behavioral science. According to it every human being has a tendency to show two faces. In a simplest term we call it hypocrisy. It’s a fundamantal attribution error. It’s human nature that person tend to find excuses to explain their own actions by their circumstances, still to impute of others to born characteristics. Hence, at the end judging poorly others while justifying ones own actions. I have spoken at length on this subject with few of my friends and unfortunately my general idea about this particular psychological disorder have run into a stone wall of public disapproval.
Hypocrisy is a natural instinct of depraved human being. If it is true then ain’t we all depraved characters. Betraying a jaundiced eye, each and every moment we are bolstering more tougher shells by showing different faces but substantially overlook our degenerating kernel or in simple terms soften our inner self. Everywhere, at home, office, in friend circle, we pose different characters at the same time. It’s very difficult to read faces now a days because character changes with every changing circumstances. The most awful part of it that we are so used to use people by masquerading ourselves under the wire. Why don’t we speak our mind? Whom we fear? Why we deliberately changing masks in front of people who are not more important than ourselves?
I have started with my father and ending this short metaphysical article with my father. He is a successful man ( considering his circumstances) and used to tell me that "you can always dupe people around you but will never to yourself."
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7 comments:
To the unknown writer, your Father story is inspiring enough...
As what you have said every "PERSON" have a dual face but that may not be hypocracy , it can be consider a diplomatic approach and that cannot be seen in grey shades.
You have TWO side to a story and TWo Side of a COin... now it depends on YOU which side you want to see.
It's all in perception and your positive/negative approach towards life.
I wrote the article.
Diplomacy and hypocrisy two different facets of character. True. We have to be diplomatic in social circles. But the problem arises when we can’t understand the limit of diplomacy. Diplomacy only plays on the shells of the character and it should not affect in the core area that is our conscience( in my opinion it has to be crystal clear always). And when it affects it turns to hypocrisy. There is a thin line between these two things. In my opinion diplomacy is used to keep everything in balance but not to play with anybody’s emotion. Actions done to bolster one's own esteem, knowing that it might show somebody else in poor light is hypocrisy which can easily be masked by the word _'DIPLOMACY'. If the action is done unknowingly, then Immaturity.
The writer seems to be narrating a depressive lament. Everyday struggle of life is now blocking his head. War of sorrow is constantly going on his heart.
All of us have certain preferences or needs, and in order to fulfill those preferences we sometimes fail to speak our minds.
We all posses dual personality. What matters is to “Be Honest to Yourself”.
I suggest writer to be tolerant towards others thoughts. Accept the hard realities of life. Things like ‘Hypocrisy’ and ‘Dual Personality’ will exist as long the man exists. Everything can’t be the way you want them to be.
Get rid of the mournful thoughts (as depicted in each article of yours) and chase Happiness.
Look who's talking...
I appreciate Shubhajit for sharing his thoughts here.
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Manjari
the author in question is a real hipocrite guy who doesnt ever show his real face.
a honest smile and loads of gyan(genetic) form his armour.
in this fast paced world we are all robinson crusoe beautyfying our own share.its a true fact and needs to be acknowledged and i have no shame in telling that "i love to be selfish".
even americans have started rationing there food chain,so better be carefull it might be your bowl next.
loved to hear frm u my hunk..
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